Ever wonder why at the end of the day, when your kids should be beyond tired, they still can’t settle down or easily fall asleep? Moms with kids with Autism or ADHD / ADD can especially relate to this. It can be so frustrating when you are also exhausted and just want to be done for the day!

I get it because it’s happened to me with my children too. And I’ve found an amazing DIY relaxing pillow spray that works wonders for helping my children calm and fall asleep more easily at night. With essential oils and other natural ingredients, it’s fast and easy to make and you can customize it to you/your child’s favorite essential oils too!

DIY Relaxing Pillow Spray for Kids

What You’ll Need:

• 4 oz glass spray bottle
• witch hazel (I prefer Thayers Rose Petal Witch Hazel)
• Lavender essential oil
• Vetiver essential oil
• Frankincense essential oil
• Cedarwood essential oil

You can choose other relaxing essential oils that you and your child prefer too. Other suggestions include: Copaiba, Chamomile, Spikenard.

How to Make this DIY Relaxing Pillow Spray

As I mentioned before, this spray is super easy to make.

Begin by adding 2 tablespoons of Thayer’s witch hazel to your empty glass spray bottle. I like how Thayer’s is infused with rose water, adding one more scent to the mix which makes it quite lovely.

Follow that by 5 drops each of frankincense, vetiver….

….and 5 drops each of cedarwood and lavender. Then top off the bottle with water and gently shake until it is mixed.

Each of these essential oils is known for their relaxing properties, which is why I chose them for this relaxing pillow spray for kids.

Lavender promotes sleep and is relaxing.
Cedarwood is calming and releases nervous tension.
Frankincense also releases tension and brings an emotional balance. (I use it in our favorite “Calm and Collected” essential oil blend for kids who have autism too.)
Vetiver is very stabilizing and known for relieving stress.

In my personal experience, Vetiver has helped me fall asleep faster than all the others!

Again, you can use other essential oils that work well for your child. I also recommend Chamomile, Copaiba, Spikenard.

You can also play around with the quantity of essential oils. I recommend starting with a low amount (20 drops total, as listed in the instructions) but you can increase the amount slowly if 20 drops don’t seem to be working.

Also, try different combinations of essential oils. Perhaps, Lavender, Cedarwood, Copaiba, and Chamomile will work well for your child. Try it out and see!

Tip: I covered my bottle with some washi tape as an easy way to make our DIY relaxing pillow spray bottle look nice. You could also use a label maker or sharpie for a simpler label.

I call our pillow spray “Sleepy Time Spray”.

How to Use Your Relaxing Pillow Spray:

Each night when bedtime rolls around, grab your essential oil pillow spray, shake well, and spritz it a few times on your child’s pillow. If your child has a special stuffed animal or blanket they like to snuggle and hug, spritz that with this blend too! Using it night after night will be calming for the mind and body. You or your child may also correlate the scent of this blend with sleep time, which can also help at night.

Spraying this nightly is recommended, but you can use it during the day as well. Having it on hand during times where hyperactivity or stress is unusually high during the day may come in handy. At those times, spray this in the room and tell your son or daughter to take some deep breaths to help calm or focus their minds.

Moms – you too can benefit from this! You may as well make a double batch so you have a bottle of DIY Relaxing Pillow Spray by your bed as well as your child’s!

Check out our DIY lavender linen spray too.

Which Essential Oil Brand is Best?

For the best results, you will want to choose a high-quality essential oil brand that is 100% pure and offers third-party testing for quality control. Read this post for more info on how to choose essential oils that work for you and your family (beyond the brand.)

My favorite essential oil company is Rocky Mountain Oils, followed by Eden’s Garden, and Ancient Apothecary by Dr. Axe.